How do y’all find connection in today’s world?
I’ve never been a socialite, so I’ve never tried participating in night life activities. My job is pretty isolated, and connections with co-workers is too risky to fully invest in. I’m also living alone for the first time in 5 years due to a relationship change. It’s probably just the weather, but life feels pretty grey right now. Classically, I’ve found joy in my hobbies, such as video games, but they just aren’t hitting in this season of life I’m in.
I know we get posts like this all the time, and I see the usual responses of “go volunteer,” or find an org to join. Do y’all have any specific suggestions, like bars, clubs, or orgs where you’ve personally experienced a welcoming vibe? Are there any dating/friend apps that actually function in this area? Are we all just doomed to an isolated existence? I look forward to your responses 🫡
For context, I’m a 28 yr old dude who likes singing, video games, anime, food, and all that stuff.