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Random question. I've been noticing a pattern and can't tell if it's just me.

A few people I've talked to recently, mostly in their 30s and 40s, all said some version of the same thing. It's not even that dating in Seattle is hard. It's that it doesn't feel like it improves.

Like you go on dates, use the apps, try to actually take it seriously, and it just kind of stays the same. Not worse, not better, just stuck.

One person put it as putting in effort and not really seeing anything change, which stuck with me.

Anyone else feel that, or is it just the people I've been talking to?