u/EconomistSingle9403

How would you go about this situation?

This coworker has never really seemed to like me in the first place. Every conversation with them seems to turn into something that is my own fault or problem. I’ve made peace with that they don’t like me for whatever reason and I’m fine not talking with them unless I have to.

But now it’s not just idle gossip anymore (which I can actually handle and ignore) but actively calling me a liar to other coworkers and accusing me of things I haven’t done.

I want to submit a harassment claim but I’ve never been in this situation before. They are not senior to me in any way at all.

What would you do?

I missed my SoftBank bill going out because I keep all of my finances in my bank account with only a cash card and usually transfer over to debit for bills, and I messed up on the date. (I’ve been a victim of fraud before so only feel safe this way usually).

SoftBank doesn’t give you any option to pay until after the miss has been confirmed on My SoftBank and it took 7 days until it would confirm it and open up to pay, which I then paid immediately. It also says you cannot pay the bill in store either.

My question is will this show up on CIC and affect my score? It is a phone rental in addition to sim, so I’m worried it’ll be reported. But I’m hoping maybe not since I rectified it as soon as it was possible to.

If anyone has any experience with that please let me know.

I am very allergic to antiperspirant. I have tried Japanese brands and Old Spice and I break out into huge rashes that deforms the skin. In the case of Old Spice it burned layers off of my skin too.

I don’t smell THAT bad… but I do sweat a lot, and I’m hyper-aware of my body odour.

I know the best long term solution here is to just lose weight and change my diet and it will improve, but I want other solutions too please.

At the moment:

I wash my clothing daily with Oxy Clean and multiple laundry liquid tabs too. I don’t have a hot water machine so I also soak my shirts and tshirts in a hot water and Oxy Clean solution for multiple hours each weekend before washing after.

I wear those under arm sweat pads for my work shirts so the fabric doesn’t absorb the sweat and I can throw the pads away. For deodorant I just buy the most expensive roll on type that says it will do the job. Of course I am showering morning and night with appropriate body soap.

I think I’m doing all I can but if anyone has any further suggestions, please… I want to hear them.