What sorts of things would you regret in a member of the clergy?
This is a potentially very explosive topic, so I want to say at the start I have no intention of embarrassing or identifying any specific person or denomination.
Nor, to be clear, am I asking about abuse of power, etc., that sometimes may lead to a question of safeguarding or worse.
It's just that.... In my six decades I have to say that the overwhelming majority of my interactions with clergy have been positive. Once or twice, however, things were said that, even if they did not sting immediately, hurt afterwards.
So, for example, one member of the clergy once dismissed my faith as incoherent. That hurt. Of course it's incoherent, and something I feel my way to, n the darkness sometimes. But to say it like that....
Have any of you any such things to share, in hopes of catharsis?