u/Effective-Mine4397

I’m in my late 20s and Tinder is completely dead for me.

I get almost zero matches with anyone decent, and the few older women who show up either ghost or aren’t interested.

Cold approaching in my town is basically impossible — it just feels awkward and gets nowhere. At the same time, I still see plenty of hot MILFs and cougars around who look like they actually know what they want and aren’t into the endless games younger women play.

Has anyone here actually had real success meeting MILFs/cougars online?

What apps or sites actually delivered results in 2026 instead of just wasting time and money?

Also sites / apps with no bots or Only Fans girls.

Especially from guys in smaller or mid-sized cities where the scene sucks. What worked, what was complete bullshit, and any tips that actually helped?

London used to be the No 1 city in the world for Daygame (back when it was a huge craze).

I used to walk around Oxford Street, Regent street, Picadilly, Marble Arch and you'd see loads of hot Eastern Euro girls , and maybe 10-30 daygamers per session.

Now the Eastern Euros have been replaced by less interesting girls, shall we say, and the whole area (particularly Oxford Street) is more "vibrant", shall we say.

More hostile to a guy trying to get in the mood for approaching girls.

Are there any hotspots in London that haven't been ruined? What's been your experience?

Cheers.