u/Efficient_Towel_9157

I like him, he is ideal. He is avoidant though, we have a really good connection and fun time. I don’t even want to be in a relationship with him as I am going through some new changes and offended he runs from me lol, but I am curious on why he feels so stable to me and good to be around even though the pattern called us “challenging”. Is it the avoidant part? Also, what does he feel / like about me? Does he feel grounded with me? I hope to be with a man similar to him at least so I’m hoping the challenging part is BS. I am the blue.