My familyTrauma
So basicly, when i was 4 my dad (then 30) betrayed my mom with my aunt (then 15). She found out because my dad, was mad that my aunt didnˋt want a second time, so he told my mom and said she is the reason he betrayed her because she was too busy with 1 Job and 4 Children. But my parents stayed for 1/2 year, till my dad said she wouldnˋt leave him because of us. They split up and we children forgot. But our dad never really cared much about us, so when we got older we stoped carring for him too. He has a new Wife and a kid. But then send his wife (Drug addict l my dad also has a called the cops on her and now they have a lawsuit, but are still together) send us a Text that our dad is sad that we didnt show up for his Birthday (we all called and said we have no time) and dinˋt got him a present ( he also did not give us presents). We ignored him till he called. But everytime someone talked to him he made us look bad and put the Problem as ours, because we are the bad ones (his words). My other aunt put his mind straight so that we now have medium kontakt to him. But we feel obligatet to visist him for every special cause.