u/ElMarditoBonai

HOW THE (RULE) DO I TEXT/FLIRT WITH AMERICANS??
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HOW THE (RULE) DO I TEXT/FLIRT WITH AMERICANS??

I didn't grew up in the states, english is NOT my first language, I DO have cultural shock since I moved here, and flirting/dating in my culture is different from here. I have NO IDEA what I'm doing, and I'm tired of pretending otherwise :c

In person I'm told I'm lovely, but holy fuck, americans seem to LOVE TEXTING FOR SOME FUCKJING REASON AAAAAAAA- IF I HAVE TO TEXT I FEEL LIKE I'M BEING LOBOTOMIZED, I DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE CHARISMATIC OVER TEXT, OR CONTINUE A CONVERSACION WITHOUT SOUNDING LIKE I HAVE THE PERSONALITY OF A WORM

So, I matched with this trans girl in one of those dating apps, for what she has told me she definitely gives me the vibe of someone I would LOVE to get to know, and after a long hiatus caused by me not knowing what to do, we finally started texting again

BUT I'M RUNNING INTO THE SAME PROBLEM OMG AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

u/ElMarditoBonai — 5 days ago