u/Elboogyyyy

So iam a 1st year cs student and pretty much know basic c++ (concepts ,oop, datastructres) and im doing some problem solving and i wanna start backend but idk what should i stick to (.net or nod.js etc.) i rly need some advice on how to pick the right one my friends said that .net is so hard and complicated for a beginner and now im soo lost.