What would you want to hear from ythe person you're caring for?
I'm the wife of a man who has been caring for me for the past 5 (out of 5) years of our marriage. He has done ALL the work. He earns all the money, did all the chores and work, handled our social life, made all the hard decisions, and provided 100% of the emotional and physical support. Recently, I had a massive health breakthrough. I no longer need care, and we're navigating being spouses for the first time instead of a patient and a caregiver.
What do you think he wants or needs to hear after all these years? How could I ever repay him for the sacrifices he made for 5 years???
He is a shell of himself after giving me everything he had and we're struggling in our marriage now that he has a chance to take a breath. He does resent me. Please share all your thoughts and feelings. I don't know anyone else who has gone through this