u/EqualWeb2765

So for context I'm entering my teen years and yes I can get quite tough to deal with I do have a bit of an attitude towards people Im not comfortable with, I haven't been close to my parents because they left me when I was a child under my grandparents care and now they're trying to claim me back and fly me all across the country just to control me and my every move , now I know what you're thinking what is possibly wrong with that I mean yes finally I can reunite with my family but the thing is that my father is immature to the point that he cannot possibly take any matter seriously I mean even in serious matter he can always make jokes about it no matter how serious it is I know he is just trying to lighten up the mood and stuff but the way he says it is wrong it just makes the whole situation awkward and uncomfortable after that now for my mother oh god how can I even start , my mother is very controlling and manipulative she is the same as my father but worse she thinks that we should follow everything she does and she should be right at all times she doesn't admit what mistake she does is wrong instead she just gets more angry like I tried having a conversation with her about her attitude and she just gets more angry I don't know what I'm doing wrong I'm stuck with both of them one is an immature father who thinks he has the right to do everything as a joke without reading the room and the other one is a manipulative mother who think she Is always right , now I feel like I'm the mad man in this family because I've matured too fast to the point that I feel like instead of them guiding me to grow I feel like IM the one who is actually taking care of them because they're both a ticking time bomb and I feel like I just wanna dissolved whenever I'm with them because every action that they do is either embarrassing or just straight up disrespectful towards me I need serious advice