Fear of Enlightenment
Hello! I am wondering if there is a way to figure out how one can overcome some kind of "fear" of realizing Nirvana? I read a zen monk say that passing away is a small death but enlightenment is the big death, so if one were to be on the cusp of realization and they have a moment of hesitation, of fully letting go of who they are because they know there is no turning back, how could they learn to overcome that? Of course it would be self-cherishing, which is something we all do and have learned since time immemorial, so how can one learn to let go of that? It's easy to not think but when the body itself hesitates, which i have seen be described as Mara, what is a remedy?
Sorry for a very odd, and perhaps controversial inquiry.