u/Fair-Possibility3108

honestly i'm just making this post for funsies but I feel like ever since i came here I haven't liked a SINGLE PERSON ENOUGH TO WANT TO BE W THEM

alot of it has to do w the fact that i only get crushes when i know someone a little and not just based off of seeing someone somewhere(aka lecture crushes), i've honestly never had a crush my whole life if u think ab it that way

but putting that aside i feel like no one really comes up to me?? i used to have guys who liked me at school so perhaps i thought i was gonna get more here but APPARENTLY NOT

it could be cause im not that attractive which is fine, (i did have two guys come up to me last year but it ended real quick w them bc im awkward and they just wanted to hook up)

SPEAKING OF HOOKING UP, is everyone here just dating casually? every dude i've seen/heard about/talked to is only really dating for fun which is not what i want. I assumed maybe the seniors were more likely to be serious but I haven't met anyone so far.

A big issue w me is i dont talk to people at all so that could be why but im lowkey just bored and miss the feeling of having a talking stage (except i want it to be a serious rs too)

basically the title this is gonna be long and dumb but

, im lowkey bombing all my summer courses (i should've just not taken them idk why i did this to myself) but i feel so stupid, like i seriosuly think im the dumbest in all my classes. even first year was ass the highest i got on a course was like 77 and the rest were way worse i dunno sometimes i regret coming here, i should've gone to some small school in my hometown.

i also feel worse because my dad has to pay for everything and it's not cheap 😭i'm just wasting his money and it's seriously taking a toll on my mental health i feel like i might do something stupid very soon but i dunno. has anyone experienced this? a series of lows but then it got better? this year has been pretty bad for me in general (school+family)and it's getting to the point where it's hard to just push those feelings away.

also i had my stat201 final and im seriously so depressed by it i want to just pass atp 😭😭 i just feel like im an idiot i dont even know why i got in like i cant even make use of the fact that im privileged enough to go here.

it doesn't help that a lot of my friends seem to be doing better than me and it makes me feel worse, i've been dealing w nightmares and shitty sleep every night and it's gotten so bad i might have to do counselling which i never thought i would need.

how did u guys find it? im so upset most of it was mcq i messed up so bad i just want to pass atp

guys ive been living alone on campus for more than a month now and to say im struggling w food is an understatement. I'm so bad at cooking theres literally one meal i can make which i can stomach otherwise i would just rely on freezer food or takeout and i dont want to get takeout as often. Does anyone have tips? What do you guys usually meal prep if you do and how can I make this easier for myself 😭. I also eat halal so it's a bit hard to get frozen meals etc that I can eat.

ok i rmmbr this movie ab a dude who gets bullied and then later becomes this like slasher dude who kills his bullies and i cant remember the name of the movie i think there was a scene w cockroaches too PLEASE HELP

i lowkey just wanna get myself checked bc i've always felt like i have anxiety but i dont want to self-diagnose. is there a way to get that done on campus? also i wanted to get some blood tests done too so i was just wondering what the process for that was(requisitions, waiting times etc)

number 22 on the waitlist how likely am i to get off (i want to die)

stupid question but I applied for a new UBC card cause i lost my old one and have to pay a replacement fee HOWEVER I had also applied for a new debit card so I dont have a physical card rn to pay the fee, I just wanted to know if the office accepts e-transfer/apple pay payments 😭

okay this situation is complicated but basically im not gonna be able to apply for my specialization this year(im in first year rn) because im pretty sure im failing a class. (im 100% sure so please dont comment ab any hope that i might pass) that being said i also think i might miss the first term of second year (theres a reason for this that i dont want to disclose completely bc its personal) which means ill be returning in the second term of second year. Now how exactly will choosing my specialization work? since they take the recent winter session into consideration and i only have one term? am i just going to have to wait ANOTHER year. im so lost

anyone in the data science major, im just wondering if its possible to take dsci second year courses if youre not admitted into the major? i know you can for other programs but since this is new im not sure. Do i have to be admitted into the program to take the courses

what do i even do if i dont get into the major i want for second year? im sure i wont and also im scared ab this course i feel like i might fail it so am i just gonna be stuck in first year standing 😭 i know you can take second year courses and then transfer later but idek im so lost i wish i had gotten direct entry