u/Fancy_Moose_5404

This lady made a post stating that men who commit violent crimes against women aren't the creepy trolls that get labeled as incels.

They are normal men with lots of success with women and a healthy looking life.

Women (and men as well)for some reason have this fairytale idea that the boyfriend is gonna be the knight in shining armor to protect the women from the neckbeard "incel".

That does happen. But you wanna know what's wayyyy more common? The partner of the women being abusive.

Incel based attacks on women are rare. I just find it disingenuous that women whom unfortunately have been treated poorly by their socially well versed boyfriend, come online and tell "incels", that they are lonely because they are abusive towards women and commit creepy acts towards them irl.

Like speaking as a guy who's physique resembles in between 4 and 5.

I am 5'4 and people don't respect your physique as much as they respect your taller counterparts. Like men would know I'm strong, but just chalk it up to me being short and it not being as aesthetic as a taller fit guy.

Like the most common couple archetype I see when going to the gym is the taller neckbeard with fit gym girl. I'm not joking, these girls who take diligent care of their physique seem perfectly ok with their taller disheveled bf. Before you attack me for my "bad personality". I would like to add that I do converse with these men. And well...... Some of them sound like what a femcel would think goes through the minds of men.

I have had many experiences when many women seem almost apprehensive that I'm physically stronger than their like tall skinny bf.

An experience I had with my close male friend and his gf was that my male friend stated that he doesn't bother trying to arm wrestle me or do physical activities like that because he knows I would win. His gf stated that I couldn't possibly be that strong, and asked us to arm wrestle. I won, and she seemed like dismissive / annoyed that I won. She then annoyingly stated that muscles don't mean much in the real world. SHE was the one who brought it up as well.

Yes I do workout to build an aesthetic physique so others can notice my effort. Like yeah I'll admit that I don't do everything for my own personal health. Like would you do anything in your life if you couldn't document it to others on social media, or real life?. Or have people compliment you?

What do you guys think of short men having good physiques in order to boost dating chances and gain social currency?