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2 women have filed posh against me(26M) , their complains seem out of proportions i dont know what to do next here. The IC committee is asking for an explanation and why they shouldn't take an action against me. One girl lets call her Z simply says i made her feel uncomfortable cause i sat beside her and talked, and once i sat behind her in shuttle(force) when there were literally 2 seats available there, she said asked me to move but I clearly remember she didnt ask me to move from the seat in shuttle. The other girl lets call her J, I requested art from her and added her on insta(only msg i sent her was "can u draw somethign for me", as she herself told me that she takes sketch requests). She said i asked her multiple times which made her feel pressure but i only asked here twice for a particular sketch if she should give it to me. How is this POSH, i talked to these women and instead of telling me that it might have made them uncomfortable they mailed it and I had meeting with IC committee(who btw didnt even had a external member and she said they dont need a external member) who wasnt even ready to listen, they were always cutting me never wanting to hear what i have to say. The IC person told me the J girl told me she has a boyfriend who doesnt like her drawings to be given, i didnt even ask any of them about their relationship. What should i do, i categorically denied some of it and accepted i sat with her in shuttle and for the J girl i purchased chewing gum from her from a shop near company, she was beside me i was already paying as a kind gesture i paid for her as well. The IC team isnt ready to listen to my side or let me present women character witness from the company itself. This is ridicoullous what should be my next steps??
IC actually asked me why u sat beside them, I told them they are senior at work so i mostly asked them about the process and work itself mostly.

Please help my future might get wrecked,my family depends upon me as i am the sole earner, i dont have much money for a lawyer!!

Edit1- they are not unrelated they sit close by, could be friends

2 women have filed posh against me(26M) , their complains seem out of proportions i dont know what to do next here. The IC committee is asking for an explanation and why they shouldn't take an action against me. One girl lets call her Z simply says i made her feel uncomfortable cause i sat beside her and talked, and once i sat behind her in shuttle(force) when there were literally 2 seats available there, she said asked me to move but I clearly remember she didnt ask me to move from the seat in shuttle. The other girl lets call her J, I requested art from her and added her on insta(only msg i sent her was "can u draw somethign for me", as she herself told me that she takes sketch requests). She said i asked her multiple times which made her feel pressure but i only asked here twice for a particular sketch if she should give it to me. How is this POSH, i talked to these women and instead of telling me that it might have made them uncomfortable they mailed it and I had meeting with IC committee(who btw didnt even had a external member and she said they dont need a external member) who wasnt even ready to listen, they were always cutting me never wanting to hear what i have to say. The IC person told me the J girl told me she has a boyfriend who doesnt like her drawings to be given, i didnt even aske any of them about their relationship. What should i do, i categorically denied some of it and accepted i sat with her in shuttle and for the J girl i purchased chewing gum from her from a shop near company, she was beside me i was already paying as a kind gesture i paid for her as well. The IC team isnt ready to listen to my side or let me present women character witness from the company itself. This is ridicoullous what should be my next steps??
IC actually asked me why u sat beside them, I told them they are senior at work so i mostly asked them about the process and work itself mostly. I asked Z for her wrist tattoo only once and said i showed her insta reels on relationship, how is any of this harrasment?

Please help my future might get wrecked cuz of these women who filed it instead of telling me once i made them uncomfortable