my boyfriend and I are in a ldr for about 6 months and see each other about 2 times a month.
we used to text and call pretty often, but it recently feels like he doesn't make an effort. it's me who initiates things and texts and i barely get a response. I've talked to him enough about how i feel because i know his life isn't busy, he even tells me himself. he's currently unemployed and doesn't have much to do.
and now, our daily calls during the evening happen around 11pm or even later, since he's the one who calls cause I have to adjust my time to his. it never used to be this late. and now every time he calls late i'm annoyed and don't want to talk anymore.
i just feel neglected. even with other things, i feel like i'm the one who makes more effort. but at the same time he's "scared to lose me and the relationship" but never does anything to show me he means it.
my main issue right now are the super late night calls and barely any contact.
am i overreacting? i don't know how to approach the situation.