Husband flirted right in front of me at the gym
My husband (37M) has been mentioning his new gym buddies lately. All but one are men. The female has even become his fb friend. Today is the first time in a while I (35 F) went with him, along with our son (12M). As soon as I walked into the gym, I noticed this woman talking a guy that was what seemed to be in his 40s or 50s. Didn't think much of it, put my stuff in the locker, then went to find a bench. A few minutes later, my husband and son walk in, and start on the bench next to mine. I go to him and start talking, then this skinny, bubbly woman interrupts me, asks me if I'm his wife, I say yes, she mentions how he talks about his "family" all the time, then mentions how "sweet and helpful" he is. Mind you, he rarely is helpful to me while struggling as he's too damn busy on his phone, which pinched a nerve. We go back to doing what we're doing then she starts complaining about now having strength today, he tells her she's doing great, he complains the same, seems to be fishing for attention, she reciprocates. This whole time he barely acknowledges me and my son and I are thinking the same...they are flirting with each other IN FRONT OF US! At this point I'm about to just leave. She steps out for a few minutes, he "flirts" with me, barely, gives me a kiss on the cheek. She comes back, flirting continues a little, the attention towards me is gone yet again. At one point, she took her hoodie off in front of my husband, saying, "It's so hot in here that I'm sweating, and I never sweat." Mind you, all she has on is a tiny little sports bra...He responds that yeah, it is hot in there. Idk if he looked at her bc my son and I were looking at each other like wtf was that?! I did notice her being overly friendly with others, men and women (definitely not me), but the fact thay my husband flirted with her just sent me over the edge. I didn't say anything, but when we got home, my son and I talked, ad we both got the same vibe. My daughter (12) over heard us talking, and mentioned to her dad about him flirting and he got all defensive and blew things out of proportion. Now he's barely talking to me, saying he just won't workout anymore, said he did nothing wrong and was honest about her, etc. Am I in the wrong here? I dont think I am, especially when my son saw and heard what I did. As far as I'm concerned, I'm not going to go back to the gym with him. I have enough self confidence issues without seeing him flirt with others.