Is it too late to get a second opinion?
On March 30th I went to the hospital for abdominal pains and had to have an emergency surgery, I was told the mass wasn't cancer then 10 days later I went to my obgyn to get my staples taken out and she informed me I had stage 1 endometrial carcinoma and got me in to see the oncologist where he informed me that its either stage 3 or I have a rare case that I have that plus ovarian cancer. He also told me since I didn't have insurance they weren't going to do any tests because it would be too expensive for me and he'd just schedule a hysterectomy after I've healed from the previous surgery and go from there (this was the 21st of april) well on Friday I got scheduled for a hysterectomy on the 2nd of June and I've been having doubts since I first went in to see him (he also had no resources for me even seemed confused when I asked him and told me he'd get me a nurse navigator but I still haven't heard a word from them besides scheduling my surgery) I called to get a second opinion with a cancer hospital 3 hours away but I'm wondering is it stupid for me to postpone the surgery to get a second opinion? Is it even too late? What if I just make things worse? I was so overwhelmed and emotional that I just accepted everything because I wanted to get it over with and move on but now that im in a clear mental space I'm just questioning everything he's done and told me.