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It's being one month in SIT Pune and it sucks

Almost everyone I see here is either in relationship or wants to be. Even the few boys I barely talked to wanted me to be in a relationship and stopped talking all together when they realise I am not interested in. I just want a casual conversation

I just want to make a few male friend so that I could talk about dumb shit and have a normal conversation. They seems to have a good time hanging out.

Even the few girls I am friends with I cannot talk to them properly because I cannot connect to them because they either have gossips about different couples or wants to be in a relationship.

It's not like I am against that I also sometimes like gossip but don't make it the entire conversation.

And recently there is a girl who just stopped talking to me just because she's currently in a relationship. Like who stops talking to a person just because he or she got a partner.

And also why most of the people sounds really dumb. And the few people who are really smart don't even want to hang out or even connect to others, or just to me I don't know.

I just can't seem to connect to people at all. Maybe the problem is me. Everyone seems to have a good time here.

I know I trauma dump here 😭😭😭 but I can't help it.

Is it only me?

Only few days before the college starts and I know nothing about the students who are going this year. Even teachers don't seem much interested. Please help me in this

HIII!

Gen, Female

I am currently looking for private colleges in Mumbai (Pune is ok too) and wanted to know current reviews for SPIT Mumbai (Sardar Patel Institute of Technology).
Please share experience on:

• Placements (especially for AI/ML and CS) – average packages, top companies, support for non-CS branches in tech roles, etc.
• Internship opportunities – are they easy to get? Supportive faculty? off campus internship support(since I want to do intern in UI/UX but if not I am open to normal tech too )
• Campus life – fests, clubs(only normal clubs or designing clubs too), student culture, crowd, hostel (if any)?
• Academic pressure – how’s the workload, attendance rules, strictness?
• Is it worth it compared to other options like VIT, KJSCE, SIT, TCET, DY Patil(Akurdi)
• Any cons I should be aware of (management issues, admin delays, outdated curriculum, etc.)?

Would really appreciate any insights🙏
Feel free to be brutally honest
Thanks in advance!
(Forgive any mistake in the post cause this is my first time posting anything on reddit)