How do you handle friendships that feels draining and stressful?
I have a friend that keeps making everything about herself and I don’t know if she does it intentionally or she is just like that.. Like we have known each other for years now and I honestly don’t know anymore I don’t want to cut her off at the same time I feel like she is slowly draining me.. I stopped hanging out with her because she is so unthoughtful and selfish when it comes about where to hang out.. and she will hit you with “I am going out with you even when I have other friends” like it some type of charity and she is expecting to be thanked for it.. Also she always makes things about herself in the most obvious way.. if you get compliments she will make it about her “I had the same thing” “I am getting the same thing done” and more.. and hear me out.. I am not the type to ever look low at my friends.. I have a friend that’s the opposite of her and I honestly look up to her she is religious, has a job, studies, and mature and I can’t find myself but excited during all our hangings and chats.. but with the first friend.. I honestly feel drained.. like the type of people that your energy dies whenever you spend half an hour with.. the problem is I feel bad for feeling like that.. because she says she enjoys going out with me but I don’t feel myself happy tbh.. I don’t know what I should do honestly if anyone has any suggestions please tell me..