Reaching out to adopter?
Hi all, I dropped off my 1st foster recently for transport going up north as she was adopted to a lovely family. I fostered her for a little over 3 months and when we first got her she was so shut down, scared, and anxious. With time and love, she really came out of her shell to this loving, cuddly, happy go lucky dog. I wanted to adopt her myself but unfortunately one of our resident dogs does not like her. Even still, the not so logical part of my brain wanted to keep her as I truly love her and we developed such a strong bond and I love the little routines we have together. However, she got adopted so I’m still trying my best to accept it and remind myself that their home will be a better fit since she won’t have another dog antagonizing her ever. So my real question .. the adopter has agreed to send me occasional updates and photos, but would it ever be appropriate to ask if I could see her for a quick visit? We’re in a multiple states over but I happen to have family that I occasionally see in the area her adopters are. I don’t want to make the adopter feel uncomfortable but my heart is breaking even more at the thought that I genuinely will never see her again. Thoughts?