26F, severe obesity and needs help
I’m 26F and I’m 158cm (around 5ft 2) and my weight has been increasing very fast over the past 4 years. I take physique shots in the same clothes once in a while to track my change over the years, and my eyes and the scale can clearly tell I gained a lot of weight.
Pic 1: 4 years ago, weight around 90kg (198lbs)
Pic 2: 1 year ago, weight around 120-130kg (265-287lbs)
Pic 3+4: current front and side profile, weight unmeasurable because my scale at home only reaches 150kg, last time I weighed myself 2-3 months ago I was already in the high 140s. I tried to put on the same underwear as the previous photos but it tore
For some context I come from a very wealthy household but I live alone in a house. I have 3 male helpers to take care of me. I do not want other females to be judging me. I do not need to do any chores, cook any meals or do anything in the house. I do not work as my parents are providing me with money and it is too tiring. I lie in bed watch the tv and scroll on my phone everyday because moving around is very painful, so I’ve been barely moving over the past year. I always order fast food and takeaways because they taste nicer. I know I eat way more than the average female, probably three to four times more per meal and around 8-9k calories per day at least. Anything less I start feeling very hungry and feel like passing out.
The only real movement everyday is going to the toilet, but I get wheeled around in a wheelchair by my helpers because I cannot stand and walk long enough without pain. I bath only once every 3 days because I cannot stand for long usually my helpers use a towel to wipe me down and lift up my belly and chest to apply powder to the folds while I’m in bed.
I’m in a lot of pain and I’m always tired and breathless. My back and knees are always in pain even with just a little bit of movement. I really would like some advice. Is this something other 26 year olds also experience and is this just part of growing up for my age?