u/Flat-Finding9244

I’m 26 and my girlfriend is 24. Recently I opened up to her about wanting to explore more fantasies in our relationship, including the fact that I have cuckold feelings/fantasies. I was honest and respectful about it, but she immediately said no and wasn’t comfortable with the idea at all.

I don’t want to force anything on her or make her uncomfortable, but at the same time these feelings are real for me and I’m trying to understand them better.

Has anyone here been in a similar situation? How do you talk about fantasies like this with your partner without damaging the relationship? Is there a healthy way to revisit the conversation later, or should I just fully drop it if she’s not interested?