My girlfriend’s colorguard uniform
Hey so me and my girlfriend have been together for quite a while now and we’re super close, we barely ever spend time apart and it’s safe to say we have a clingy relationship.
For context she tries her best to dress really modest, especially after we met, she stopped wearing anything that would show more than her lower arms, which means no crop tops no tube tops, nothing revealing.
That all was for a reason, I was really insecure about how she dressed and at first I tried to make it seem like I didn’t care hence I didn’t want her to worry about anything or come off as controlling.
However after she started suspecting that it affected me she stopped wearing any of those things.
She signed up for the colorguard at her school for next year and she was in it before we met, but just today I saw what their uniforms look like and basically it’s just a dress which shows off a lot of the shoulder and both her whole arms.
I know I might seem crazy and that people dress like that for occasions and it’s perfectly normal but seeing her in that, knowing she’ll have to go in front of her whole school every football game and wave the flag around while wearing this made me feel sick to my stomach, I haven’t told her anything and I’ve been trying to avoid the topic but I genuinely don’t know how to grasp it.
She complained about their policy which is basically that she will have to take off all her jewelry before every game which was frustrating for her since she has a lot of facial jewelry and she thought of resigning but the teacher in charge of the team told her that they already made a list and that it’s too late, so even if I told her to quit there’s really nothing either me or her could do.
What do I do? How do I even approach this or how should I cope with the gut wrenching feeling? If anyone has any idea please help me out 😓