u/ForestBeginnings

Hi! Thank you so much for this amazing resource, I'm not social media native at all, so this has been very helpful.

I have a tiktok (think: dating issues) that attracts both a lot of thoughtful comments & a lot of bitter, unhappy comments ("women only date the top 10% of men & hate people shorter than XYZ"). Is it better to kindly respond to these sad/self-hating comments? Or focus on positive community building?

I really do feel bad for the commentators & am trying to spread kindness & joy! But oh my goodness! Some of these folks are drunk on misery.