u/ForgivenMan2

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Hi everyone,

I am new here and trying to learn from others who have faced a similar decision.

I am 59 and recently diagnosed with prostate cancer. My basic facts are:

- PSA in the 3-4 range
- Biopsy: Gleason 3+4=7 prostate adenocarcinoma
- MRI: PI-RADS 5 lesion in the right posteromedial peripheral zone
- MRI concern for extraprostatic extension near/toward the right neurovascular bundle
- Seminal vesicles normal
- No pelvic lymph node enlargement on MRI
- PSMA PET: uptake in prostate, but no radiotracer-avid lymph nodes or macroscopic metastases
- Decipher score: 0.96 high risk

I have talked with urology, radiation oncology, and medical oncology. My main decision is between:

  1. Clinical trial path: xaluritamig plus/minus relugolix before prostatectomy, then surgery, with radiation/ADT still possible afterward if pathology or PSA requires it.

  2. Radiation path: prostate radiation with MRI-directed boost, now likely including elective pelvic nodal radiation because of Decipher, plus about 2 years of ADT.

  3. Surgery outside the trial: prostatectomy first, then early salvage/adjuvant radiation and/or ADT if pathology or PSA indicates it.

My concern is that the Decipher 0.96 makes surgery alone feel less convincing. I understand it does not mean surgery is wrong, but it seems to suggest aggressive biology and a higher chance that local treatment alone may not be enough.

For anyone with high Decipher, high-risk features, or EPE concern:

- Did Decipher change your treatment plan?
- Did it push you toward radiation + ADT instead of surgery?
- Did anyone choose surgery first and later need radiation/ADT?
- If you did radiation + ADT, how manageable was ADT after the first few months?
- Any regrets about surgery first vs radiation first?

I know Reddit cannot make the decision for me, and I am still working with my doctors. I am mainly looking for real-world experiences from people who had to weigh aggressive tumor biology, quality of life, and the possibility of needing combined treatment.

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u/ForgivenMan2 — 8 days ago