Does chasing the reverse rainbow frustrate you? Join the happy world of players who have no care for the colour order!
Overriding principle: play the game the way that brings you the most enjoyment. If reverse rainbows add to the fun for you, no need to downvote me - I'm glad you enjoy that element of the game.
My enjoyment of the game increased long ago when I gave up trying to discern green from yellow, and all that nonsense. I do some pre-solving to avoid red herrings, but I'll submit in whatever order helps me check I'm on the right track. If purple comes last I'll happily sit back and muse before I submit. Anyone else joining me in these sunny uplands of liberation from colour / color?
Otherwise, I guess getting purple first or the full reverse rainbow is important if...
...you like getting the badges and burnishing your stats - but to me they are just a tick of a box that only matters because you think it matters;
...you want to be competitive with other posters on this sub - but I find I satisfy my competitiveness by completing the puzzle with few mistakes and seeing how that compares with others.
...you want to demonstrate your total domination of the game - well... Some skills have value in the wider world - vocabulary, general knowledge and a bit of craftiness for logical leaps and educated guesses - so I get great satisfaction when I succeed with those. But other skills are pretty meaningless beyond Connections - say, mind-reading how Wyna has allocated colours - so I feel no loss ignoring such a task.
Based on their recent comments, this might be of interest to u/Enthooziest or u/Turbo_Fresh 😊.