u/Free_Key183

I didn’t expect postpartum to feel like I was losing myself
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I didn’t expect postpartum to feel like I was losing myself

I didn’t really expect postpartum to feel this emotionally strange.

People talk about the baby the sleepless nights the recovery and everything that comes with it

But nobody really talks about that weird phase where you slowly stop feeling like yourself for a while

You’re still there for everyone else still doing what you’re supposed to do

but inside you feel kind of disconnected from yourself

And what surprised me most is how many women go through this quietly while still acting completely fine on the outside

For a while I thought I was just struggling with motherhood more than I should

But the more I started reading about postpartum and what women actually go through mentally after childbirth the more things started to make sense

I came across a really simple article that explained this in a very clear way

He's here

I feel like this is way more common than people talk about

u/Free_Key183 — 10 days ago

Before pregnancy I had a flat stomach, now I have this belly that just won’t go away. Loose skin, overhang, and I still look like I’m 5 months pregnant.

I’ve been trying to “do the right things” (walking, light workouts, eating better) but nothing seems to work.

Everyone says “give it time” but how much time?? It’s already been months.

I don’t even recognize my body anymore and it’s really affecting my confidence.

Is there actually a way to fix this naturally or does it always end up needing surgery?

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u/Free_Key183 — 1 month ago