u/Frequent-Growth7888

I know it's a cliche question but I am having a dilemma right now. I am 25F

🌼The guy I love- he is hardworking, has dreams, is older than me by 5 yrs, he makes sure I'm always happy, healthy (like really push me to go to the gym and eat healthy cause I also want to be a mom), listens to me (esp. when my depression is kicking in) and patient with me but on the other hand I shoulder most of our living expenses now (we are dating for 4 months) he have a lot of plans for us

🌼The guy that can provide- I just met him this week, he is kind and patient, his older than me by 12 years, he is very willing to provide for me and eventually settle down and he is not pushy (esp. about having sex).

Which one would you choose?