u/Friendly_Shine777

I’m 26 and currently in an accelerated BSN program on a full-ride scholarship after already completing a previous degree. I’m genuinely working really hard and trying to build a better future for myself. I’ll be graduating this December 2026.

Today my mom said, “I wish you would’ve started sooner haha, now you’re with all the old girls.”

I know some people may think that’s harmless, but honestly it hurt. I already put a lot of pressure on myself about my age and timeline, so hearing that after working this hard made me feel embarrassed and ashamed instead of proud of myself.

Has anyone else dealt with family making comments that make you feel “behind” after you went to nursing school as an adult?