u/Fruiit0v3rd0se

Say if you were recording an arrest in a public place from a safe distance and an officer tells you that you don’t have the right to record. Could the officer get in trouble for this, since they are lying to about your rights? If they forced you to stop recording by arresting you or threatened to detain you for it what would happen to them?

I’m a pretty firm believer in dreams being a warning from your brain or maybe a higher power. I keep having the same dream every few nights and every time it’s scarier, despite being the same dream I feel more lucid in it every time. I never remember the entirety of the dream but the more I have it the more I remember. It always start out at night, in my current home, I’m standing out front of my house, a few feet away from the porch, and I start hearing slow distant clapping noises, the claps are always spaced out at least five seconds, and they slowly start getting louder, closer. I always run inside when the clapping starts and I run into my mother’s bedroom, with open blinds and a window facing right at the porch. My family is never here with me, my pets aren’t either, and I can feel how alone I am. I never remember what the thing following me looks like, but I know I look at it in the dream. The clapping sounds get louder and closer every few seconds and when it’s really close I hear heavy walking. Eventually the clapping is so loud it hurts and when I look up and I know it’s on the porch, I know I see it but I don’t have a vision of it in my head, that might be a good thing. I then run out the back door, which is connected to my parents bathroom, and I run into the nearby lake, the clapping following me the whole time, then the dream ends with me in the lake and the clapping extremely close. I want to know if anyone’s had something adjacent or has an idea of what kind of warning this could be.

18F, 93lb, 5’1
(none of this stuff is really important, I’m not sure if this is the correct subreddit to ask about this, please direct me to a better one if this is the wrong one)

I was in the ER a little bit ago because I thought my appendix burst. No worries, it just ended up only being severe constipation and dehydration. I had something quite traumatic happen to me from a male and because of it when I’m not in a life-threatening situation I always request female medical staff. Usually, they don’t mind and get me a female doctor or nurse, but this time was different. When they realized it was just constipation and I told them my laxatives weren’t working at all they said they were going to do a digital disimpaction. I already wasn’t crazy about the idea of a stranger’s finger being up my butt but it was supposed to be a female nurse doing it so I was semi-comfy, but then a male doctor, whom I had never seen before came in and said he was going to do it, and the female nurse who was in there left.
I told him I’m not at all comfortable with that and I’d rather just leave since it’s not life-threatening, and he told me it’d be in my best interest to stay and I’d likely just come back in. I kept telling him I’d rather have a woman do it and he kept saying that he wanted to make sure it was done right since my constipation was severe. I continued begging him for a woman to do it but he kept insisting it’d be better if it was him, he started lubricating his glove so I just nodded despite really not wanting that and he told me to turn on my side.
Nothing during the procedure felt too out of the ordinary except him grabbing my hip pretty tight, I don’t know if there is a reason for that. It ended up not changing anything at all and I had to get an enema, which was done by a woman. I didn’t see him again after that. Is it really that significant that he did it instead of a slightly less experienced woman? (After all, he didn’t even help it at all) It made me really uncomfortable. I’m not asking for legal advice or anything like that since I definitely don’t think this is a legally dodgy thing I just want to know if how I feel is justified and if it’s normal that he didn’t have a woman come in to do it? It made me feel really strange.