Networking events are mostly theater. The real connections happen elsewhere.
Spent three years going to events. Business cards. Elevator pitches. Small talk with strangers holding drinks. Followed up with dozens of people I met at these things.
Clients from networking events in three years: two.
Clients from being genuinely helpful in online communities, replying to emails thoughtfully, and having one-on-one coffee with people I already loosely know: everything else.
Networking events optimize for breadth. Business relationships require depth. Exchanging cards with 40 people in an evening produces 40 shallow contacts and zero trust.
One real conversation with one person who already has a reason to talk to you is worth more than every lanyard and name badge combined.