Regret after switching school from Bagmati to Daffodil and nightmare after that
So, I studied in Bagmati Boarding School till class 6 and everything was going good. I was a good student, the students were good, I had good amount of friends (some of whom are even in touch today)and infact valued studies and teachers were good too. But in Class 6 midway my dad planted school change in my mind. And I being a child of age just 10 was very much into it. After some time he again said this school is good for you and your brother is also here so let's not switch.
But I had already made up my mind and insisted on changing the school and went to Daffodil. And I even don't want to remember my 4 years after that. I couldn't tell my parents that I wanted to go back to Bagmati at 8 after I was bullied, given names, shamed for not being glamorous as a girl and so on not just by students but also teachers. Then in Grade 8 most of the teachers were sacked after being involved in politics and it went downhill with teachers having no experience on how to teach. Even my class mates would tell me not to study much which I know would never face in Bagmati.
While my brother got good exposure and guidance in Bagmati School and he did really well in SLC 13 years ago. Someone who would be very weak in studies got like 85% in there. While I couldn't get any guidance or something scored only 83% although being good in studies, 11 years ago. If I would have been in Bagmati I would have got like 90% for sure. Though these certificate means nothing now but in Daffodil there was like blatant favouritism towards rich kids while treating us somewhat low like we don't even exist.
And let's not talk about students; I agree there are some students who would not respect teachers, were sort of indiscipline and stuff but every students making fun of teachers and bullying them like they were nothing. Let me talk about one instance like there was this Art teacher who was very good at his craft but these boys started throwing papers and swearing at him so much that he left that school. This is just one example.
And don't talk about fees, it was just very expensive but without any facilities or so. And I never had any friends.
Today while looking back after these many years, and already being in good career (I'm a software engineer), I sometime still regret on switching school as I have been through a lot. Not only that even my dad had to pay nearly 40% more for me than he had to pay for my brother in Grade 10, even when we were going through a lot that time. So, I feel I should have had stayed at Bagmati only and there would be different version of me as that 4 years (7-10) were the most formative years in terms of personality building ( I have a very meek and timid personality due to this).