(Female 21) As the heading states, my ex used me and betrayed me, he was horrific to me too but I really loved him. We met in Feb 2025 and broke up in August but he came back again in 2026 Feb thinking he had changed I decided to give it another shot but I’ve woken out of it now but Jesus the damage is done not to mention that my family life is not kind to me. I come from a family that has always restricted me to my core and I feel suffocated and there is no escape. Now before yall get mad at me I wanna atleast find someone or get married so I have someone I can rely on if I need to leave my house after an abusive incident. Any idea on when I can meet someone or get married so I don’t feel like this anymore :/
P.S I’m very career oriented but it’s not enough for me to leave cause of the finances and obligations to my parents and tied with house mortgage
I’m exhausted and I have to find a way to leave without cutting people off and the only way is finding someone
I know how bad that sounds but that’s the only logical solution for me
(Ex was a different culture and 4 years older)