Sealing stained wood: alternative to polyurethane
First time attempting to stain and poly, in the past my little projects have been OK with just English Oil or similar. I did the:
prestain -> stain -> 4hr wait, then second coat -> next day poly #1 -> 6hr wait, 220 grit sand, poly #2 on red oak boards.
One of the things that happened is that the red oak didn't take the poly evenly because of the gouges. I had sanded to 220 grit to start but there was a flatness issue. But that's just poor prep work/starting point on my part.
Anyway, the project was looking mostly OK except that the poly continued to take impressions from and dull from clamps and tools. Finally I applied iron-on edge banding (the red oak also had a plywood back) and the tool that trims the edge band kept getting stuck on the poly. Worse yet, the poly was strong enough to pull some of the face of the red oak with and leave a gouge.
All day today I spent on taking the poly off with a plane and then sandpaper...ugh. Just stained again and it's looking good enough, better than the first time. But I am wondering if I can seal with paste wax or another beginner-friendly sealant.
Thank you!