u/Gazgemauch

20 [M4F] #Online - Shy nerd hoping to find true love in reversed roles!

Hiya!

I'm your short and sweet little nerd that has never had a real relationship before, was consistently too shy to talk to any of his crushes, and is now hoping to find his soulmate!

To get the most important part out of the way, I am looking for a role-reveral relationship (AKA, me is smol and shy so you might have to make the first moves). I am not comfortable, and CANNOT be comfortable, trying to act like a strong leading type, it's just not me.

As for what you can expect from me. You can expect me to act a little shy at first especially if we talk on voice. I might need to be coaxed out of my shell, but I'll be very affectionate once I am. I love affection and will melt at even the slightest affectionate gestures, I am very easy to fluster. Also immensely loyal, I view betrayal as one of the worst things a person can do.

My preferences in people are broad and wide, Energetic or calm, gentle or boisterous, introverted or extroverted, cute or tomboyish, I can find a positive to pretty much every trait. I do have some weaknesses for clingy, talkative, affectionate, protective, or possessive traits. Not much preference on appearances either, but I generally prefer pale skinned, fair skinned, or light tan.

I am not strict on location, but please be from a safe and developed area. (Europe, United Kingdom, United States, Canada, Australia, East Asia, or Southeast Asia.)

I am natively Dutch and live in the Netherlands, but as tagged in the title, I prefer starting off online. NOT permanently however! If things work out, we should meet IRL eventually! Virtual hugs are nice but real hugs are the greatest!

For my own appearance, I am pretty short to average height, my skin is on the paler shade, got dark hair and brown eyes, actively working to get more into shape and I'm aiming for a more average or slim body-type. Prefer not exchanging pictures until later though! I am way too shy to show my face.

I'm primarily a homebody. I have some nerdy hobbies like games, movies, some animes, and youtube, with a general preference for horror, fantasy, sci-fi, or comedy. I like comfort like sitting still and listening to music or daydreaming. I WOULD like the outside, but it's boring alone. I've also always wanted to travel to places like the US or Japan, but need an excuse to.

One last note: I am not the most active on Reddit, so generally prefer moving to Discord once comfortable, just so I can receive notifications without checking Reddit, and you can see whenever I'm online.

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u/Gazgemauch — 2 days ago

20 [M4F] #Netherlands / #Online - I'm just a shy lil' nerd, but I could be YOUR shy lil' nerd!

Hiya! I'm 20 year old Dutch guy who always struggled meeting new people, never been the one to make the first move because I'd get flustered and opt for a tactical retreat, and as such have no dating experience. Hoping that any post I make here could be my last.

Here's what I'm looking for and what to expect from me relationship wise:

I am shy and soft, always have been, and I'm happy to be this way, a genuine comfort in role reversals. Don't expect me to lead or act mature, it's just not me.

I'm here to fill the niche of the genuine soft little nerd that melts at the slightest affections, has his day instantly made if we spend our time together, and achieves life fulfillment at being held or cuddled.

Because of me not really liking traditional gender roles in relationships, it's not required, but it's true that opposites attract a lot harder, so if you're protective, coddling, clingy, doting, affectionate, any of the good stuff, trying to get me to like you will be on easy mode.

Looks are far less important than the person. Sure I'll admit I do have some soft-spots as does everyone, people that dress for comfort or tomboy-ish for example, or on the paler shade of skin. But it doesn't matter, it's not required, I'd rather have someone that's a match in personality than in looks.

I am pretty short, you will probably be similar height or taller than me, please be fine with that! I don't have a height preference myself, you could be as short as me, or so tall that I'd mistake you for my sleep paralysis demon.

I prefer long-distance at first but not forever, we should only think about IRL once we already know we like each other though. Because of this, preference on location is either EU, UK, USA, AUS, or Asia as those are generally safe and developed places.

Above all, I want something true, genuine, and sweet. I view true love as one of the most important goals in life so I want to settle for the long-term that could last a lifetime.

A little about me on a personal note:

I can be a bit introverted and tend to avoid big groups, while on the contrast, one-on-one interactions are the highlight of my day.

Loyalty and honesty are my greatest values, I don't like keeping secrets or acting disloyal to anyone that matters to me.

Currently working on body health! I'm a little bit chubbier while I'd like to be a skinny wimp!

For hobbies, I am very much a homebody, I like PC Games, Roleplaying, Videos, Music, and relaxing. I do like some outdoor activities like walks or swimming though.

There are some hobbies I always wanted to try but am never able to. Hiking/camping is one, my area just ain't built for it. Always wanted to visit other countries like USA or Japan too but never had a good enough excuse and I don't want to go alone.

My favorite genres are fantasy and horror, but have a weakness for eldritch themes or yandere themes (what a contrast! Cthulhu or love-sick girl.)

Some of my favorite games include Sea of Thieves, Dead by Daylight, Phasmophobia, Minecraft, The Sims, ETC. But I play many games of many genres so if you have any games, let's bond over them!

Primarily a youtube watcher, but I watched some movies, series, and animes, although not many I might still know a few. I generally prefer Fantasy, Sci-fi, Horror, or Comedy when it comes to those.

Like what you read (for some reason)? Read these NOTES!:

1: I try to check Reddit on occasion but I'm not on it 24/7! Because of this, generally I find it easier to talk on Discord or Steam once comfortable (you decide when!) just for notifications.

2: I will never ghost, so I will always respond even to hi's and hey's, BUT, I am no conversation expert, so if you're not ready to add a follow up after the greeting, don't expect me to know what to do either. Tell me about yourself instead!

3: This is a little disclaimer because I sometimes worry about it, but if I don't talk, I promise it's NOT because I don't want to. I'm just a bad conversation starter. If you think I don't talk enough, just yap to me about anything. I will appreciate any excuse to keep talking.

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u/Gazgemauch — 6 days ago

20 [M4F] #Netherlands / #Online - I'm just a shy lil' nerd, but I could be YOUR shy lil' nerd!

Hiya! I'm 20 year old Dutch guy who always struggled meeting new people, never been the one to make the first move because I'd get flustered and opt for a tactical retreat, and as such have no dating experience. Hoping that any post I make here could be my last.

Here's what I'm looking for and what to expect from me relationship wise:

I am shy and soft, always have been, and I'm happy to be this way, a genuine comfort in role reversals. Don't expect me to lead or act mature, it's just not me.

I'm here to fill the niche of the genuine soft little nerd that melts at the slightest affections, has his day instantly made if we spend our time together, and achieves life fulfillment at being held or cuddled.

Because of me not really liking traditional gender roles in relationships, it's not required, but it's true that opposites attract a lot harder, so if you're protective, coddling, clingy, doting, affectionate, any of the good stuff, trying to get me to like you will be on easy mode.

Looks are far less important than the person. Sure I'll admit I do have some soft-spots as does everyone, people that dress for comfort or tomboy-ish for example, or on the paler shade of skin. But it doesn't matter, it's not required, I'd rather have someone that's a match in personality than in looks.

I am pretty short, you will probably be similar height or taller than me, please be fine with that! I don't have a height preference myself, you could be as short as me, or so tall that I'd mistake you for my sleep paralysis demon.

I prefer long-distance at first but not forever, we should only think about IRL once we already know we like each other though. Because of this, preference on location is either EU, UK, USA, AUS, or Asia as those are generally safe and developed places.

Above all, I want something true, genuine, and sweet. I view true love as one of the most important goals in life so I want to settle for the long-term that could last a lifetime.

A little about me on a personal note:

I can be a bit introverted and tend to avoid big groups, while on the contrast, one-on-one interactions are the highlight of my day.

Loyalty and honesty are my greatest values, I don't like keeping secrets or acting disloyal to anyone that matters to me.

Currently working on body health! I'm a little bit chubbier while I'd like to be a skinny wimp!

For hobbies, I am very much a homebody, I like PC Games, Roleplaying, Videos, Music, and relaxing. I do like some outdoor activities like walks or swimming though.

There are some hobbies I always wanted to try but am never able to. Hiking/camping is one, my area just ain't built for it. Always wanted to visit other countries like USA or Japan too but never had a good enough excuse and I don't want to go alone.

My favorite genres are fantasy and horror, but have a weakness for eldritch themes or yandere themes (what a contrast! Cthulhu or love-sick girl.)

Some of my favorite games include Sea of Thieves, Dead by Daylight, Phasmophobia, Minecraft, The Sims, ETC. But I play many games of many genres so if you have any games, let's bond over them!

Primarily a youtube watcher, but I watched some movies, series, and animes, although not many I might still know a few. I generally prefer Fantasy, Sci-fi, Horror, or Comedy when it comes to those.

Like what you read (for some reason)? Read these NOTES!:

1: I try to check Reddit on occasion but I'm not on it 24/7! Because of this, generally I find it easier to talk on Discord or Steam once comfortable (you decide when!) just for notifications.

2: I will never ghost, so I will always respond even to hi's and hey's, BUT, I am no conversation expert, so if you're not ready to add a follow up after the greeting, don't expect me to know what to do either. Tell me about yourself instead!

3: This is a little disclaimer because I sometimes worry about it, but if I don't talk, I promise it's NOT because I don't want to. I'm just a bad conversation starter. If you think I don't talk enough, just yap to me about anything. I will appreciate any excuse to keep talking.

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u/Gazgemauch — 9 days ago

20 [M4F] #Netherlands / #Online - I'm just a shy lil' nerd, but I could be YOUR shy lil' nerd!

Hiya! I'm 20 year old dutch guy who always struggled meeting new people, never been the one to make the first move because I'd get flustered and opt for a tactical retreat, and as such have no dating experience. Hoping that any post I make here could be my last.

Here's what I'm looking for and what to expect from me relationship wise:

I am shy and soft, always have been, and I'm happy to be this way, a genuine comfort in being an outlier to traditional gender roles. Don't expect me to take on any leading roles or act all tough and mature, it's just not me.

I'm here to fill the niche of the genuine soft little nerd that melts at the slightest affections, has his day instantly made if we spend our time together, and achieves life fulfillment at being held or cuddled.

Because of me not really liking traditional gender dynamics in relationships, it's not required, but it's true that opposites attract a lot harder, so if you're one of those rare types that likes to be the one acting protective or coddling, trying to get me to like you will be on easy mode.

Looks are far less important than the person. Sure I'll admit I do have some soft-spots as does everyone, people that dress for comfort or tomboy-ish for example, or on the paler shade of skin, and over half of my past crushes on girls I never dared talk to were asian descent so it's safe to say I fall extra hard for those. None of this is required, I'd rather have someone that's a match in personality than in looks.

I am pretty short, you will probably be similar height or taller than me, please be fine with that! I don't have a height preference myself, you could be as short as me, or so tall that I'd mistake you for my sleep paralysis demon.

I prefer long-distance at first but not forever, we should only think about IRL once we already know we like each other though. Because of this, preference on location is either EU, UK, USA, AUS, or Asia as those are generally safe and developed places.

Above all, I want something true, genuine, and sweet. I view true love as one of the most important goals in life so I want to settle for the long-term that could last a lifetime.

A little about me on a personal note:

I can be a bit introverted and tend to avoid big groups, while on the contrast, one-on-one interactions are the highlight of my day.

Loyalty and honesty are my greatest values, I don't like keeping secrets or acting disloyal to anyone that matters to me.

Currently working on body health! I'm a little bit chubbier while I'd like to be a skinny wimp, so expect that to change!

For hobbies, I am very much a homebody, I like PC Games, Roleplaying, Videos, Music, and relaxing. I do like some outdoor activities like walks or swimming though.

There are some hobbies I always wanted to try but am never able to. Hiking/camping is one, my area just ain't built for it. Always wanted to visit other countries like USA or Japan too but never had a good enough excuse and I don't want to go alone.

My favorite genres are fantasy and horror, but have a weakness for eldritch themes or yandere themes (what a contrast! Cthulhu or love-sick girl.)

Some of my favorite games include Sea of Thieves, Dead by Daylight, Phasmophobia, Minecraft, The Sims, ETC. But I play many games of many genres so if you have any games, let's bond over them!

Primarily a youtube watcher, but I watched some movies, series, and animes, although not many I might still know a few. I generally prefer Fantasy, Sci-fi, Horror, or Comedy when it comes to those.

Like what you read (for some reason)? Read these NOTES!:

1: I try to check Reddit on occasion but I'm not on it 24/7! Because of this, generally I find it easier to talk on Discord or Steam once comfortable (you decide when!) just for notifications.

2: I will never ghost, so I will always respond even to hi's and hey's, BUT, I am no conversation expert, so if you're not ready to add a follow up after the greeting, don't expect me to know what to do either. Tell me about yourself instead!

3: This is a little disclaimer because I sometimes worry about it, but if I don't talk, I promise it's NOT because I don't want to. I'm just a bad conversation starter. If you think I don't talk enough, just yap to me about anything. I will appreciate any excuse to keep talking.

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u/Gazgemauch — 15 days ago

20 [M4F] #Netherlands / #Online - I'm just a shy lil' nerd, but I could be YOUR shy lil' nerd!

Hiya! I'm 20 year old dutch guy who always struggled meeting new people, never been the one to make the first move because I'd get flustered and opt for a tactical retreat, and as such have no dating experience. Hoping that any post I make here could be my last.

Here's what I'm looking for and what to expect from me relationship wise:

I am shy and soft, always have been, and I'm happy to be this way, a genuine comfort in being an outlier to traditional gender roles. Don't expect me to take on any leading roles or act all tough and powerful, it's just not me.

I'm here to fill the niche of the genuine soft little nerd that melts at the slightest affections, has his day instantly made if we spend our time together, and achieves life fulfillment at being held or cuddled.

Because of me not really liking traditional gender dynamics in relationships, it's not required, but it's true that opposites attract a lot harder, so if you're one of those rare types that likes to be the one acting protective or coddling, trying to get me to like you will be on easy mode.

Looks are far less important than the person. Sure I'll admit I do have some soft-spots as does everyone, people that dress for comfort or tomboy-ish for example, or on the paler shade of skin, and over half of my past crushes on girls I never dared talk to were asian descent so it's safe to say I fall extra hard for those. None of this is required, I'd rather have someone that's a match in personality than in looks.

I am pretty short, you will probably be similar height or taller than me, please be fine with that! I don't have a height preference myself, you could be as short as me, or so tall that I'd mistake you for my sleep paralysis demon.

I prefer long-distance at first but not forever, we should only think about IRL once we already know we like each other though. Because of this, preference on location is either EU, UK, USA, AUS, or Asia as those are generally safe and developed places.

Above all, I want something true, genuine, and sweet. I view true love as one of the most important goals in life so I want to settle for the long-term that could last a lifetime.

A little about me on a personal note:

I can be a bit introverted and tend to avoid big groups, while on the contrast, one-on-one interactions are the highlight of my day.

Loyalty and honesty are my greatest values, I don't like keeping secrets or acting disloyal to anyone that matters to me.

Currently working on body health! I'm a little bit chubbier while I'd like to be a skinny wimp, so expect that to change!

For hobbies, I am very much a homebody, I like PC Games, Roleplaying, Videos, Music, and relaxing. I do like some outdoor activities like walks or swimming though.

There are some hobbies I always wanted to try but am never able to. Hiking/camping is one, my area just ain't built for it. Always wanted to visit other countries like USA or Japan too but never had a good enough excuse and I don't want to go alone.

My favorite genres are fantasy and horror, but have a weakness for eldritch themes or yandere themes (what a contrast! Cthulhu or love-sick girl.)

Some of my favorite games include Sea of Thieves, Dead by Daylight, Phasmophobia, Minecraft, The Sims, ETC. But I play many games of many genres so if you have any games, let's bond over them!

Primarily a youtube watcher, but I watched some movies, series, and animes, although not many I might still know a few. I generally prefer Fantasy, Sci-fi, Horror, or Comedy when it comes to those.

Like what you read (for some reason)? Read these NOTES!:

1: I try to check Reddit on occasion but I'm not on it 24/7! Because of this, generally I find it easier to talk on Discord or Steam once comfortable (you decide when!) just for notifications.

2: I will never ghost, so I will always respond even to hi's and hey's, BUT, I am no conversation expert, so if you're not ready to add a follow up after the greeting, don't expect me to know what to do either. Tell me about yourself instead!

3: This is a little disclaimer because I sometimes worry about it, but if I don't talk, I promise it's NOT because I don't want to. I'm just a bad conversation starter. If you think I don't talk enough, just yap to me about anything. I will appreciate any excuse to keep talking.

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u/Gazgemauch — 18 days ago

20 [M4F] #Netherlands / #Online - I'm just a shy lil' nerd, but I could be YOUR shy lil' nerd!

Hiya! I'm 20 year old dutch guy who always struggled meeting new people, never been the one to make the first move because I'd get flustered and opt for a tactical retreat, and as such have no dating experience. Hoping that any post I make here could be my last.

Here's what I'm looking for and what to expect from me relationship wise:

I am shy and soft, always have been, and I'm happy to be this way, a genuine comfort in being an outlier to traditional gender roles. Don't expect me to take on any leading roles or act all tough and powerful, it's just not me.

I'm here to fill the niche of the genuine soft little nerd that melts at the slightest affections, has his day instantly made if we spend our time together, and achieves life fulfillment at being held or cuddled.

Because of me not really liking traditional gender dynamics in relationships, it's not required, but it's true that opposites attract a lot harder, so if you're one of those rare types that likes to be the one acting protective or coddling, trying to get me to like you will be on easy mode.

Looks are far less important than the person. Sure I'll admit I do have some soft-spots as does everyone, people that dress for comfort or tomboy-ish for example, or on the paler shade of skin, and over half of my past crushes on girls I never dared talk to were asian descent so it's safe to say I fall extra hard for those. None of this is required, I'd rather have someone that's a match in personality than in looks.

I am pretty short, you will probably be similar height or taller than me, please be fine with that! I don't have a height preference myself, you could be as short as me, or so tall that I'd mistake you for my sleep paralysis demon.

I prefer long-distance at first but not forever, we should only think about IRL once we already know we like each other though. Because of this, preference on location is either EU, UK, USA, AUS, or Asia as those are generally safe and developed places.

Above all, I want something true, genuine, and sweet. I view true love as one of the most important goals in life so I want to settle for the long-term that could last a lifetime.

A little about me on a personal note:

I can be a bit introverted and tend to avoid big groups, while on the contrast, one-on-one interactions are the highlight of my day.

Loyalty and honesty are my greatest values, I don't like keeping secrets or acting disloyal to anyone that matters to me.

Currently working on body health! I'm a little bit chubbier while I'd like to be a skinny wimp, so expect that to change!

For hobbies, I am very much a homebody, I like PC Games, Roleplaying, Videos, Music, and relaxing. I do like some outdoor activities like walks or swimming though.

There are some hobbies I always wanted to try but am never able to. Hiking/camping is one, my area just ain't built for it. Always wanted to visit other countries like USA or Japan too but never had a good enough excuse and I don't want to go alone.

My favorite genres are fantasy and horror, but have a weakness for eldritch themes or yandere themes (what a contrast! Cthulhu or love-sick girl.)

Some of my favorite games include Sea of Thieves, Dead by Daylight, Phasmophobia, Minecraft, The Sims, ETC. But I play many games of many genres so if you have any games, let's bond over them!

Primarily a youtube watcher, but I watched some movies, series, and animes, although not many I might still know a few. I generally prefer Fantasy, Sci-fi, Horror, or Comedy when it comes to those.

Like what you read (for some reason)? Read these NOTES!:

1: I try to check Reddit on occasion but I'm not on it 24/7! Because of this, generally I find it easier to talk on Discord or Steam once comfortable (you decide when!) just for notifications.

2: I will never ghost, so I will always respond even to hi's and hey's, BUT, I am no conversation expert, so if you're not ready to add a follow up after the greeting, don't expect me to know what to do either. Tell me about yourself instead!

3: This is a little disclaimer because I sometimes worry about it, but if I don't talk, I promise it's NOT because I don't want to. I'm just a bad conversation starter. If you think I don't talk enough, just yap to me about anything. I will appreciate any excuse to keep talking.

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u/Gazgemauch — 21 days ago

20 [M4F] #Netherlands / #Online - Shy lil' softy hoping to stumble into fate and be found by their soulmate.

Just 20 year old guy who always struggled meeting new people, never been the one to make the first move because I'd get flustered and opt for a tactical retreat, and as such have no dating experience. Hoping that any post I make here could be my last.

Here's what I'm looking for and what to expect from me:

Be of similar age, it doesn't have to be an exact match as I am pretty lenient on age though. Tell me yours if you're unsure, just be 18+!

I am shy and soft, always have been, and I'm happy to be this way, a genuine comfort in being an outlier to traditional gender roles. Don't expect me to take on any leading roles or act all tough and powerful, it's just not me.

I'm here to fill the niche of the genuine soft little nerd that melts at the slightest affections, has his day instantly made if we spend our time together, and achieves life fulfillment at being held or cuddled.

Looks are far less important than the person, so if you think your looks are going to be a deal-breaker for me, don't think that! I always fall for personality first and foremost.

Sure I'll admit I do have some soft-spots as does everyone, people that dress for comfort or tomboy-ish for example, or being more pale-skinned, but it's by no means a requirement.

No preference on height, but as I am pretty short, you will probably be similar height or taller than me, please be fine with that!

I prefer long-distance at first but not forever, we should only think about IRL once we already know we love each other though. Because of this, preference on location is either EU, UK, USA, AUS, or Asia as those are generally safe and developed places.

Above all, I want something true, genuine, and sweet that can hopefully last for the rest of our lives. I don't want to make a connection just to give up on it!

A little about me:

I'm natively Dutch and thus live in the NL, but prefer talking English and speak it fluently.

Currently working on body health! Aiming for skinny wimp!

I can be a bit introverted and tend to avoid big groups, while on the contrast, one-on-one interactions are the highlight of my day.

Loyalty and honesty are my greatest values, I don't keep secrets if you ask about them, and stay loyal at all times.

For hobbies, I am very much a homebody, I like PC Games, Roleplaying, Videos, Music, and just chatting. I do like some outdoor activities like relaxing walks or swimming though.

My favorite genres are fantasy and horror, but have a weakness for eldritch themes or yandere themes (what a contrast! Cthulhu or love-sick girl.)

Some of my favorite games include Sea of Thieves, Dead by Daylight, and Minecraft. But I play many so if you have any games, let's bond over them!

Some of my favorite movies/series include Friday the 13th, Lord of the Rings, and Child's Play, but I really like comedy too. I watched a few animes too but not many. Primarily watch Youtube though!

P.S: As I don't receive notifications unless I actually open Reddit, I may take a minute to respond (I will never ghost someone!). Because of this, I generally prefer moving to Discord or Steam once we decide to continue talking, just for easier notifications.

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u/Gazgemauch — 27 days ago

20 [M4F] #Netherlands / #Online - Shy lil' softy hoping to stumble into fate and be found by their soulmate.

Just 20 year old guy who always struggled meeting new people, never been the one to make the first move because I'd get flustered and opt for a tactical retreat, and as such have no dating experience. Hoping that any post I make here could be my last.

Here's what I'm looking for and what to expect from me:

Be of similar age, it doesn't have to be an exact match as I am pretty lenient on age though. Tell me yours if you're unsure, just be 18+!

I am shy and soft, always have been, and I'm happy to be this way, a genuine comfort in being an outlier to traditional gender roles. Don't expect me to take on any leading roles or act all tough and powerful, it's just not me.
I'm here to fill the niche of the genuine soft little nerd that melts at the slightest affections, has his day instantly made if we spend our time together, and achieves life fulfillment at being held or cuddled.

Looks are far less important than the person, so if you think your looks are going to be a deal-breaker for me, don't think that! I always fall for personality first and foremost.

Sure I'll admit I do have some soft-spots as does everyone, people that dress for comfort or tomboy-ish for example, or being more pale-skinned, but it's by no means a requirement.

No preference on height, but as I am pretty short, you will probably be similar height or taller than me, please be fine with that!

I prefer long-distance at first but not forever, we should only think about IRL once we already know we love each other though. Because of this, preference on location is either EU, UK, USA, AUS, or Asia as those are generally safe and developed places.

Above all, I want something true, genuine, and sweet that can hopefully last for the rest of our lives. I don't want to make a connection just to give up on it!

A little about me:

I'm natively Dutch and thus live in the NL, but prefer talking English and speak it fluently.

Currently working on body health! Aiming for skinny wimp!

I can be a bit introverted and tend to avoid big groups, while on the contrast, one-on-one interactions are the highlight of my day.

Loyalty and honesty are my greatest values, I don't keep secrets if you ask about them, and stay loyal at all times.

For hobbies, I am very much a homebody, I like PC Games, Roleplaying, Videos, Music, and just chatting. I do like some outdoor activities like relaxing walks or swimming though.

My favorite genres are fantasy and horror, but have a weakness for eldritch themes or yandere themes (what a contrast! Cthulhu or love-sick girl.)

Some of my favorite games include Sea of Thieves, Dead by Daylight, and Minecraft. But I play many so if you have any games, let's bond over them!

Some of my favorite movies/series include Friday the 13th, Lord of the Rings, and Child's Play, but I really like comedy too. I watched a few animes too but not many. Primarily watch Youtube though!

P.S: As I don't receive notifications unless I actually open Reddit, I may take a minute to respond (I will never ghost someone!). Because of this, I generally prefer moving to Discord or Steam once we decide to continue talking, just for easier notifications.

reddit.com
u/Gazgemauch — 30 days ago

Just 20 year old guy who always struggled meeting new people, never been the one to make the first move nor approach any crushes I may have had. So now I'm going to the one place I dare show my text, Reddit. First post here, yaaay!

What I'm looking for and what to expect:

I'm very open-minded with what I'm looking for, I don't really have standards besides just be a woman of reasonably similar age, be someone I can get along with because I'm praying for a life-long partner here. What you can expect from me is initially a shy lil' nerd, I might take some time get more talkative, but you can crack that shell pretty easily by telling me a bad joke.

When it comes to me:

I'm natively Dutch and thus live in the NL, but prefer talking English and speak it fluently.

Pretty short guy and I'm happy to be! Not in the best shape but am actively working on getting more into shape!

I can be a bit introverted and tend to avoid big groups, while appreciating one-on-one a lot more.

I always saw myself as shy and am happy that way, so don't look at me for a boisterous extrovert, because I will faceplant in the attempt and make a tactical retreat.

Loyalty and honesty are my greatest values, pretty self-explanatory, I despise the very idea of being anything other than loyal and honest to what in my opinion is the most important connection of one's life.

For hobbies, see if we get along!:

Games! My main interest being adventure, horror, or roleplaying games, I'm at my happiest when there's an environment to immerse myself in and lore I can nerd out about. My primary games having been Sea of Thieves, Dead by Daylight, World of Warcraft, and Minecraft.

RP! I quite like roleplaying although I've never had a full group of people for it so I mostly kept it to online RP.

Stories to read! I love many types of stories, but gravitate the most towards fantasy, and also having a weakness for either eldritch horrors or yandere themes (quite the contrast, I know).

Chatting! I enjoy just chatting a lot too although I still struggle with lengthy conversations unless it's in a game or RP, but once I get going I'm well able to waste the entire day away like that.

The vibes! Sitting down with some Youtube for either music or videos, walking outside when it's raining, it puts my mind at ease.

I love trying new things too! So if you have any hobbies, you might just rope me into them!

Note: I don't check reddit TOO often but will guarantee to respond within 24 hours or sooner depending on my erratic sleeping schedule, as I'm usually a night-owl, expect me to be awake at an average of 9PM CEST to 1PM CEST but am able to adjust depending on necessity.

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