20 [M4F] #Online - Shy nerd hoping to find true love in reversed roles!
Hiya!
I'm your short and sweet little nerd that has never had a real relationship before, was consistently too shy to talk to any of his crushes, and is now hoping to find his soulmate!
To get the most important part out of the way, I am looking for a role-reveral relationship (AKA, me is smol and shy so you might have to make the first moves). I am not comfortable, and CANNOT be comfortable, trying to act like a strong leading type, it's just not me.
As for what you can expect from me. You can expect me to act a little shy at first especially if we talk on voice. I might need to be coaxed out of my shell, but I'll be very affectionate once I am. I love affection and will melt at even the slightest affectionate gestures, I am very easy to fluster. Also immensely loyal, I view betrayal as one of the worst things a person can do.
My preferences in people are broad and wide, Energetic or calm, gentle or boisterous, introverted or extroverted, cute or tomboyish, I can find a positive to pretty much every trait. I do have some weaknesses for clingy, talkative, affectionate, protective, or possessive traits. Not much preference on appearances either, but I generally prefer pale skinned, fair skinned, or light tan.
I am not strict on location, but please be from a safe and developed area. (Europe, United Kingdom, United States, Canada, Australia, East Asia, or Southeast Asia.)
I am natively Dutch and live in the Netherlands, but as tagged in the title, I prefer starting off online. NOT permanently however! If things work out, we should meet IRL eventually! Virtual hugs are nice but real hugs are the greatest!
For my own appearance, I am pretty short to average height, my skin is on the paler shade, got dark hair and brown eyes, actively working to get more into shape and I'm aiming for a more average or slim body-type. Prefer not exchanging pictures until later though! I am way too shy to show my face.
I'm primarily a homebody. I have some nerdy hobbies like games, movies, some animes, and youtube, with a general preference for horror, fantasy, sci-fi, or comedy. I like comfort like sitting still and listening to music or daydreaming. I WOULD like the outside, but it's boring alone. I've also always wanted to travel to places like the US or Japan, but need an excuse to.
One last note: I am not the most active on Reddit, so generally prefer moving to Discord once comfortable, just so I can receive notifications without checking Reddit, and you can see whenever I'm online.