
My bond with Encantada made stronger through understanding the human condition
Great post in Facebook Community by Fix The World Arnhem founder Jolanda Timmerman:
I thought this lovely little story about how the relationship with my horse has been strengthened because of this information, might help new people to see the power of it!
Jeremy’s book FREEDOM completely changed my bond with my horse Encantada 🐴 ✨I’ve worked with horses a lot, and I work on that communication and trust every day. For years, I searched for the best methods and techniques to become even better. But the biggest change in my work ultimately didn't come from a handbook on horses. It came from a very special book about humans: Freedom by Jeremy Griffith. This book changed my view of the world and actually made me a much better trainer for Encantada.
The book simply explains why we as humans are often so stressed, frustrated, or insecure. Deep down, we are fighting a battle between our feelings and our minds. Unconsciously, this causes a lot of tension in our daily lives.
When I read this and let it sink in quietly, a real weight was lifted from my shoulders. And I noticed that immediately with the horses.
Horses simply don't have that inner struggle. They live primarily in the present, guided by their feelings and instincts. But they sense exactly how we feel. Before I read this book, I unconsciously sometimes brought my own human tension into the arena. My drive to deliver and perform, my doubts, or my frustration when something didn't quite work out. Encantada mirrored that immediately. After all, a horse reacts not only to what you ask, but especially to who you are.
Thanks to FREEDOM, I finally understood where my own inner turmoil came from. That insight gave me so much relief. Nowadays, I enter the stable very differently. I no longer have to prove myself. If Encantada shows tension now, I no longer get stressed and defensive. I no longer think: ‘Why is she acting like this now?’ Instead, I remain calm, look at what she needs, and exhale.
Because I now radiate inner peace, Encantada feels at ease with me. Our bond — which was already so strong from her third year with me — has truly grown to a whole new, special level because of this information. We understand each other without words.