u/Girlie_friesmaxxing

Hi! My friend and I are looking for an outreach program or volunteer activity here in Cebu. We’re both free on Saturdays and would really love to spend our free time doing something meaningful and helping out.

We’re open to different kinds of activities, especially community outreach, school-supply drives, activities for kids, donation drives, feeding programs, or other community-based activities.

If you know of any organizations, groups, or upcoming outreach programs that accept volunteers, please let us know! You can drop the details below or send me a DM. 😊

Thank you!

Hello! Sooo we’re already in our mid-20s pero wala pa gyud mi ka-experience ug actual dating, BF, or anything like that. And lately, murag gusto naman mi maka-experience pud ana just for the plot HAHAHA. Basin ma-motivate mi gamay sa life kay lately murag wala na kaayo’y gana, wala inspiration, boring na ang life. Need new experiences ba, charot. HAHAHA

Ask lang mi, where do you guys find your organic encounters? Like kanang natural ra gyud nga maka-meet kag someone, not through dating apps or online, but kanang random encounter nga murag *“hala, how did I even meet this person?”* HAHAHA.

For me personally, dating/online apps are not really for me. Idk, hesitant pa gyud ko makig-meet ug totally stranger from the internet. 😭 My friend is more willing to meet people naman, pero dapat kuyog ko kay duha mi mahadlok HAHAHA. Safety first, malay mo naa diay serial killer dira. 😭

Even sa work, murag wala man gyud ya HAHAHA. Most of the people we meet at work are either taken, married, or way older/younger. So murag dili pud reliable source of potential dates ang workplace HAHAHA.

Btw, we’ve been trying to go out more naman. We walk/jog, go out to eat, picnic and yapping, window shopping, mga ing-ana lang. Pero wala pa gyud ya HAHAHA. And we actually wanted to shoot our shot sa mga random people nga ma-encounter namon, pero ang problema is… when the moment actually comes, wala naman mi kabalo unsaon 😭 Vv shy man dayun. Like, mentally prepared mi sa balay pero pag ara na ang person, \*“\*ay never mind, maybe next lifetime.”

**Speaking of organic encounters…**

Shoutout sa taga-Decathlon SM City nga guy HAHAHAHA. If you know him, please tell me his name. 😭 Is he single ayhan??? Asking for… research purposes. Charot HAHAHA.

He’s kinda 5'4-ish? Basta I’m 5 flat and taller siya gamay sa akon. And naka-mullet siya now hehe. First time ko siya nakita when I claimed my racing kit sa Decathlon SM City for the half marathon. Crush at first sight dayun haw. Like wala man gani mi nagstorya, nakita ko lang siya and I was like *“oh… hello cute and good-looking guy???”* HAHAHA.

Then pagka-other day kay race day na, I saw him again. 👀

So at this point, is this destiny???
Or am I just being delulu???
Delulu is the solulu, I guess😂

And now, gaka-inspire na nuon ko magkadto sa Decathlon. 😭 Last Saturday, nagkadto mi there to check some shoes, and pag-step namon sa store, siya gid dayun ang bungad. HAHAHAHA. Like, okay universe, I GET IT. 😭

So ayun lang. For those who are also not into dating apps, where do you guys actually meet people organically? Cafés? Gyms? Running groups? Events? Random places? Like, how did you get the confidence to approach someone you find attractive? Where did you get the courage to actually go up to them and start a conversation without overthinking everything? HAHAHA.

And for those who have actually successfully shoot their shot at a stranger… HOW DID YOU DO IT??? 😭😂 Please share your success stories or tips because we clearly need help HAHAHA

Maybe we just need to go out more and stop waiting for *“t*he moment.*”* Or maybe the universe is already giving us opportunities and kami lang gyud ang gapangita ug courage.😭

Also, if ever naa moy idea unsaon pag-approach sa crush without looking creepy or awkward, please educate us HAHAHA. Kay basin next time makita namon ang crush, dili na mi mag-*“ay never mind”* and actually do something about it. GRRRRRRR

**And Decathlon guy, if somehow makakita ka ani… hiiiii.** 😭 HAHAHA.