





What Katara was denied
Growing up I have realised I feel bad for Katara because of the fact that our poor girl has been denied one simple thing.
...Being a teenage girl.
Like, look at her falling for Jet and making a hat for him only for him to end up being a manipulative, bad guy all along.
Look at her getting excited about her fortune being told only for Aunt Wu to end up being a fraud after all (even though Katara still has to take her words as granted about her love life by the end of the episode).
Listen to her talk about using a moisturizer for skin (Aang hates the girly talk btw), enjoy dressing up and being pretty.
Look at her blush around other guys her age.
...apparently, most of these things are meaningless. Katara shouldn't look at other guys as she has a case of true love™ prepared for her. One guy was bad, the other one was never considered to be a match for her (and grew a pair of ugly moustache), the third one is a "devil on her shoulder" whom she "might've shared a couple of sparks with", but eventually she realises what she needs in life! A powerful bender, yeah! Because Katara, at her 14-15 years should already think about her future and - dare I say it - choose wisely!...She can play dress up and look pretty, though, because a certain someone has to look at her once in awhile in all these pretty pink filters and sparkles. But do not let her talk about it, okay? It's exhausting.
Now that I've wrote all this, I am wondering - was Katara ever allowed to experience fun the way a teenage girl is allowed to? What about love? Like, not the true love™ but a stupid, teenage crush with butterflies in her stomach and wobbly knees?
Has she ever shared a first kiss which wasn't a non-consentual press against her lips or the one she had to share in a cave she was literally trapped in?
Like, look. I know there is a lot of discuss about Zutara being toxic blah blah and they would've argued a lot and blah blah it's just merr attraction blah blah - but actually...is that REALLY such a bad thing?
Isn't she a teenage girl?