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I used to be a heavy procrastinator, telling myself I still have time until the days before an assessment, leading to extremely poor grades. While I still do procrastinate, I now score near perfectly in all tests. The secret to good grades isn't forcing yourself to discipline, but rather a shift in identity. Here are a few tips that worked for me:

1. Fix your self perception: Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right. There is no secret to improving yourself drastically if you don't even believe it will happen. Reframe "I don't think I can be the smartest in my class" to "I want to be the smartest in my class" to "I am the smartest in my class". You will never outperform your own self image, so the first step to any improvement is to fix how you see yourself.

2. Reverse engineer the rubric: The education system rewards obedience, not thinking. Good grades are sourced from fulfilling the grading criteria, not just showing general knowledge. This includes reading into your teacher and their values. Instead of spending your time working on the strength of the shot, spend most of your time aiming.

3. Avoid perfection: Waiting for the "right time" to study is the worst thing you can do to yourself when preparing for a test, as the friction of starting perfectly causes cognitive paralysis. Produce a highly flawed, incomplete, version of the work immediately. The

We currently live in a hyper distracted world where the average teenager's attention span wouldn't allow them to finish reading this post. Anyone who can maintain unbroken focus is already miles ahead of others. I used to struggle on this, but these few tips made studying addicting:

1. Tie yourself to an identity: You will rarely outperform your own self image. Let that sink in. If you don't think you can reach your goal, it will only quietly harm your identity and self perception. Reframe "I want to be the smartest in my class" to "I am the smartest in my class".
2. Embrace the friction: It's never the studying itself thats difficult, but rather the transition into it. We tend to take the path of least resistance, so continuing to do something is much easier than moving from one task to another (e.g. stopping your scroll session to study). Notice that once you get into flow state, you don't want to stop. Usually, its only the first 30 seconds of anything that's difficult. Waking up, studying, exercising, etc. Embrace the first 30 seconds, and the rest will follow.
3. Clear the workspace: Whether it's the table you work on, the tabs on your computer, or the clutter in your room. Notice that, seconds after you send an AI prompt, you're already on another tab off task; in between sets in a workout, you start scrolling. Remove everything around you except for the single task at hand.

The secret to winning in this generation is simply to master the art of focus.

I've always had surges of motivation of me telling myself I would never scroll, eat unhealthy foods, sleeping late etc again. But within days, I relapse, making it seem impossible to continue avoiding this bad habit long-term.

If you experienced something similar for any bad habit, the tips below would help:

1. Be flexible: Relying on a self promise to never slip up is unreliable and fragile. When you relapse, the promise breaks completely, allowing you to justify abandoning the goal. The secret is to never miss twice, and to immediately bounce back the next day. Avoiding bad habits work like compound interest: everyday it gets easier, and relapsing once will serve no harm; however, dwelling on it and seeking justification for the cognitive dissonance will.

2. Understand how dopamine works: Dopamine peaks not during the reward, but in the anticipation of it. When you receive a cue (such as a notification, or going into a convenience store) your brain recognizes an opportunity for a quick reward. The resulting dopamine spike creates a state of physiological craving that repeats itself. To overcome this, create friction between the cue and the reward. Implement a cooldown for certain apps, only buy healthy snacks, move your alarm away from your bed, etc.

3. Do it with a friend: We tend to make a real change only when we know we are being seen. Quitting a habit in isolation relies completely on self accountability, which can be dismantled by self justifications so easily. Having a friend do it with you, or set a bet for how long you can go without relapsing introduces external friction, which helped me quit so many bad habits.

Remember that consistency is built by engineering your environment and identity rather than making empty promises. It takes time, but looking back, the process is enjoyable and is definitely worth it in the end.

We currently live in a hyper-distracted world where the average teenagers' attention span wouldn't allow them to finish reading this post. Anyone who can maintain unbroken focus is already miles ahead of others. I used to struggle on this, but these few tips made studying addicting:

1. Tie yourself to an identity: You will rarely outperform your own self image. Let that sink in. If you can't even believe it, it will not happen. Reframe "I want to be the smartest in my class" to "I am the smartest in my class".

2. Embrace the friction: It's never the studying itself thats difficult, but rather the transition into it. Notice that once you get into flow state, you don't want to stop. Usually, its only the first 30 seconds of anything that's difficult. Waking up, studying, exercising, etc. Embrace the first 30 seconds, and the rest will follow.

3. Clear the workspace: Whether it's the table you work on, the tabs on your computer, or the clutter in your room. Notice that, seconds after you send an AI prompt, you're already on another tab off task; in between sets in a workout, you start scrolling. Remove everything around you except for the single task at hand.

To win, simply master the art to focus. It's never been easier to outwork everyone else.

I always had this problem where I'm too lazy to start studying, which sets me behind others. This makes me feel guilty, but the worry of being behind others overwhelms me, so I continue to procrastinate.

If you are like me, the tips below would help:

1. The two minute rule:

Choose one study resource to look at for exactly two minutes. Afterwards, decide whether you want to continue or not. Some people find it difficult to even begin studying for the two minutes. The trick is to set a two minute timer and start immediately, and when the timer goes off, you must force yourself to stop studying, whether or not you want to continue. Eventually, you would be more inclined to continue than to stop.

2. Change the environment:

We tend to associate locations with behaviors (e.g. bedroom with scrolling). This association makes studying practically impossible as the environment itself is the distraction. The simplest way to avoid this is to change locations. This can be as simple as moving from your bedroom to your living room when studying.

3. Put something on the line:

Sometimes, the grade itself doesn't give enough urgency. We tend to genuinely work for something when we know that we are seen. Set up a bet with a friend, e.g. $20 on whether or not you get 90+ on the next math test.

I always had this problem where I'm too lazy to start studying, which sets me behind others. This makes me feel guilty, but the worry of being behind others overwhelms me, so I continue to procrastinate.

If you are like me, the tips below would help:

1. The two minute rule:

Choose one study resource to look at for exactly two minutes. Afterwards, decide whether you want to continue or not. Some people find it difficult to even begin studying for the two minutes. The trick is to set a two minute timer and start immediately, and when the timer goes off, you must force yourself to stop studying, whether or not you want to continue. Eventually, you would be more inclined to continue than to stop.

2. Change the environment:

We tend to associate locations with behaviors (e.g. bedroom with scrolling). This association makes studying practically impossible as the environment itself is the distraction. The simplest way to avoid this is to change locations. This can be as simple as moving from your bedroom to your living room when studying.

3. Put something on the line:

Sometimes, the grade itself doesn't give enough urgency. We tend to genuinely work for something when we know that we are seen. Set up a bet with a friend, e.g. $20 on whether or not you get 90+ on the next math test.