Looking for asexual marriage
Hi Reddit, this is my first account. Ngl I don’t know how I’m supposed to talk or go about this but here.
I’m a 28(M), currently residing in Cape Town South Africa. Growing up I’ve always thought I’d get married and have kids. I’ve had many good examples in my life of marriages in Islam and that’s something I thought I’d have one day. But here I am, later in my life as an asexual and I feel robbed, can’t lie. Being part of a stable and supportive family is something I haven’t had growing up and I always envisioned I could create that family one day myself.
I’ve always wanted to be a father (you can tell by my dad jokes). I’ve always been and still currently mentoring my brothers, sisters and to an extent my younger cousins and it’s a responsibility I take a lot of pride in. I wanted them to become kind, humble and inherently GOOD people at the end of the day and that’s the example I’ve put forward for them as much as possible while we’re were growing up. That task might have sounded like a lot but I felt nothing but happy that I could take on that responsibility. Till today I’ve still held out hope that one day I can do that for my own kids inshallah Ameen.
I can’t say much from what I want in a wife. I honestly can’t. I can’t imagine me being the way that I am, is a part of any woman’s plan. I’m writing this to reach out to woman who’s in the same boat as me. Someone who wants to build a family together, be best friends, wants to become a better Muslim each day and wants to complete half her Deen. I keep thinking over and over about how we were taught that we were made in pairs and that theres SOMEONE out there for SOMEONE.
I put the rest in my Creators hands
So yeah I guess this is my attempt at finding that someone lol. If anyone is interested in reaching out kindly do so. Have a great day 🫶🏼