Feeling left out
The title says it all. I feel pretty left out at work. I hear coworkers talking about their days, management discussing all the fun things they did together. Meanwhile I'm in the background thinking... Am I really even here?
My metrics are a different story. I think I'm fine in that regard. It's just that, with respect to the "whole person" so-to-speak, I'm sad to say my social needs are unmet.
But I also never say the first word. I never interrupt. And yeah, I always do my part to help customers find what they need and maintain a basic level of respect. I just hate feeling so darn lonely all the time.
That said, I also understand the store floor isn't really the place to be making friends. I just want to build camaraderie with my coworkers. Even a basic "hi, how are you" from one would be nice. I just hate feeling like a ghost all the time.
Does anyone know what to do in this situation? How do I break the ice and build positive relationships at work? I may need them as references in the future, or for finding Item-Not-Founds (INFs). So this is really important to me as I'm sure you can imagine.
Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks.