Not there yet, I know
My (42) wife (39) and I have about 2.2M invested (mostly but not entirely stocks), and another 80k in a HYSA. We also have a few rental properties cash flowing slightly (let's say 1k a month) and with a total of 500k in equity. When they are fully paid off (20-30 years from now, we just bought some of them) they will cash flow $4,000 month total). Our primary is worth a million with an outstanding mortgage of 600k, and it has a basement apartment that rents for a bit under 2k a month and helps with the mortgage, which will be paid off in 25 years. So total net worth is around 3.2M, with some longer term real estate payoffs.
Spend is about 170k after taxes.
I know we're not ready (or even really close based on these metrics). But I'm also completely and utterly exhausted with my high-stress career, and am considering stepping back and taking a more coastfire-type approach, where I don't really save, or don't save much. My ultimate goal would be to retire on the early side (maybe 55, but I would pull the trigger as soon as I was able).
I would love any reactions on the above! I know it's half-baked...but I'm tired...