Everyone’s health
I know we all talk about our own situations and how’s everyone’s timelines but I really want to know how’s everyone’s emotional health. How eve try ones I copping with what we went through? How long it took you to be the same as before.
In my case, it took me 3 years before I didn’t react to a doorbell. After 6 years I still don’t trust men and I can’t fully remember what happened anymore. I can’t talk to anyone and recently I told my best friend but I couldn’t get far without breaking down.
I don’t own a dog anymore (my ex took my dog). And even now that I have found the best man, boyfriend I have ever met in my life I feel I can’t move on because we can’t get married since I’m still waiting for vawa.
It’s been 6 years since my experience and just 1 year ago I couldn’t call it an abuse every time someone asked because I felt weak and a victim and stupid, embarrassed and caged that I couldn’t named what happened to me. My abused lasted a year and some months, it didn’t stopped until I filed in secrets for divorce and once I got the papers I blocked him and left and never looked back.
So I wanted to hear about everyone else and where their minds are at. Just if you guys want to share.