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How to solve neighbour-itis?

Have popped this under ‘structures’, since it’s for fencing?

My lovely side garden runs parallel with a pavement and road within our estate, and is around 20m long. The fence was partially 5ft high and partially 6ft when I moved in, and I sought relevant permission to extend the top with horizontal slats to make it 6ft the whole length.

The problem is, the gaps between the fence boards and between the trellis slats are big enough that my neighbours can easily peer in from the pavement if they decide to. Most people just breeze on by since it’s a thoroughfare, but there’s one bloke who will stop and intentionally look through to see what I’m doing, particularly now that I’ve started work to turn the grass rectangle into a garden. Before I added the slats, he would have his whole head above my fence scaring the daylights out of me trying to chat when my back was turned. I’m already overlooked by the 2nd storey windows of the houses across the road, I don’t want to be looked into on purpose as well!

I don’t have the budget to replace what would be 42m of fence in total, although I would love a solid close board fence further down the line.

I had experimented with rolls of brown plastic privacy screening, and yes it works in that you can’t see straight through it, but it looks bloody awful.

I suppose I’m asking whether this idea would look naff or not - to use rolls of brushwood screening, and use fencing staples to attach them inside the fence? 1st pic is what I’m working with where you can see the universe through my boards, and the hideous plastic experiment; 2nd is an AI mock up; 3rd pic is the type of screening I’m talking about.

I’ll eventually have the garden swing situated on hard standing, with beds and planting in front of the fence, but I can’t wait that long for climbers to establish for privacy. Thanks for ideas in advance!

u/Happy-Possibility- — 5 days ago

I dug my first garden bed yesterday, and have been filling it today. I’m a total beginner, so please be kind with any input on what I’ve probably done wrong!

The bed is 3 x 1.5m, full sun and well draining.

I started off with 3 x delphiniums, 3 x lapins, 3 x scaboisa, and 6 x phlox. Got those all in and thought it still looked a little patchy, so I’ve added 2 x campanula, 3 x argyrantheum, and 3 x salvia. I’ve left a spot in the centre for some sort of climber, but I don’t have the tools to put up a support on the wall yet.

23 plants came to £115 from 2 different local nurseries, please let me know if I got ripped off!

The bed will eventually extend the full length of the wall, and yes I started digging out for the pond at the end as well because I have no chill. My partner is exasperated that I didn’t wait for him to do it for me, but lucky for him my back gave out halfway through so he can finish doing the really deep bit 🤣

u/Happy-Possibility- — 18 days ago

1st photo was taken about 18 months ago, the spot was where my rabbit run used to be - he’s moved to a larger, luxury enclosure around the other side. 2nd photo was taken yesterday, after breaking ground on my very first garden bed!

I’ve owned my home for 3 years, and I’ve planted pots but have been too scared(?) to dig up and plant things in the ground. A fear of not knowing what I’m doing I suppose, or of getting it ‘wrong’. But I could sit and plan and ruminate for another 3 years without ever actually starting, so instead I grabbed tools and got stuck in before I could talk myself out of it.

The bed will eventually go the full length of the wall, with plans for the pond to go at the end, but this small patch is enough of a start without feeling too intimidated. I’m going to weed over this area, then put cardboard and compost down to suppress anything else.

The area is full sun, and I’d like maybe evergreen climbers up the wall, along with cottage garden plants - lupins, geraniums, scabiosa, phlox, other blue/purple/yellow/white plants that take my fancy in the nursery, whose names I don’t remember.

I still don’t know what I’m doing really, and I don’t have much money to do it with, but it’s the starting that’s the hard part!

u/Happy-Possibility- — 19 days ago