u/Head-Requirement828

Any other STM thinking 2 and done?

I'm wondering if we'll be done after this baby. Previously I really thought we'd want a third, and maybe later we will. Buuuuut the last four years have been intense for us, fertility and pregnancy wise! Year 1 fertility treatment and Endo excision. Year 2-3, pregnancy and postpartum. Year 3-4, another Endo excision for regrowth, more fertility treatment, and now (gratefully) pregnancy again. My husband and I are tired of having our heads constantly in fertility land, and while we're of course happy to get pregnant, I think we'd also be happy to never think about (or spend money on) fertility treatments again. I'm not sure what the odds of us conceiving are if we simply NTNP after PP with this baby - we both have generally working parts, albeit suboptimal. We're considering leaving a potential third up to fate. We'd be happy if we could conceive a healthy baby without fertility treatments, but I also think we'd be really happy with "just" two as well - and in a lot of ways, we'd probably be a lot more stable if we kept it at 2.

Just wondering what other people are thinking as far as their family planning goes!

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u/Head-Requirement828 — 7 days ago