u/Holiday_Love3125

Private homes (moving is not an option as easy as an apt) very quiet neighborhood.

However new neighbors has a son about 2/3 years old that screams excessively in the home and in their backyard. I am not an expert on children but it doesn’t seem normal. I am not sure if the child is neurodivergent OR if the parents are just bad.

When he screams for 10 minutes straight at the top of his lungs the mother says NOTHING.

Should I (CAN I?) ask them to lower the volume? Many of my neighbors are also upset with this. Everyone is understanding (but there are other children who are not as loud.)

My neighbors are also just very loud ppl, they always sound like they’re arguing and have no respect for others and their volume.

I did two interviews from two separate jobs saying I was just not the right fit.

I emailed thanking for their time and asked if they had feedback.

Both didn’t respond. Is this something that I shouldn’t do? I saw advice saying that is it good to ask for feedback however is this bothering recruiters?

Neighbors kids have to be 5 and 3, they scream all day and I work from home.

Our home windows face each other. And they’ll bang on the window that is across from my room for hours on end. So imagine two kids screaming and banging. And then they go outside and scream so loud all day. This is from 6AM -10 AM. And then again after 3pm-6 PM.

I do not want to be a grumpy neighbor, I understand children scream, and I think the youngest could be on the spectrum.

However the parents themselves are also VERY loud people. When they’re outside they speak so loudly. No one else in my neighborhood is like this, everyone is friendly quiet and respectful of others.

They also rent their basement out where the tenants would have LOUD sex and fight all night 12aam-5PM The police had to be called on one occasion because it sounded like a bad DV situation. It’s no longer an issue now. But you can imagine it’s awful.

However the new problem is with the children. How do I address them kindly and say I work from home without insulting their children? They also don’t speak good English (they speak an Indian language but are learning English) , so it will be a very broken convo. Where I would say something like “too loud”, any advice?