Can anyone suggest a city-building game where you build pleasant places and lives for people, and then defend them against enemies?
I've played a lot of Total War games before I realised that I like overcoming the odds and winning by superior strategy, not numbers. But I don't like invading people or factions that haven't done anything to me. It feels mean, and I wouldn't like it.
Are there any games where you build a medieval, renaissance, or Roman city, with beautiful visuals, roads, and depth to the settlement, and then have to defend it from enemies?