Interpreting dinner parties or social outings
Hello! Ive been reflecting on a setting that I found myself struggling in. I’ve working for near 5 years now, and have been booked for several holiday parties, work dinners ect. I’ve noticed that often in these settings while there is of course interpreting to do, the Deaf individual ends up socializing with me instead of the other attendees. Why that is? I think there are several factors depending on the booking itself. But I have noticed often hearing crowds stick together, don’t socialize much with the Deaf person, or there’s so many people at the table that it’s impossible to interpret for everyone, so I interpret the people in our vicinity or whomever they prefer to listen to (given I’m able to hear them from my location). However is these scenarios, I’ve noticed often the Deaf attendee will make conversations with me instead of their colleagues etc. Minimal conversations and chatting I don’t mind at all, given we’re building that work relationship. However I do feel uncomfortable when it feels prolonged or near the entire booking this is taking place. I am there to provide a service and at times I feel like I’m taking advantage of that time by socializing instead of interpreting. (keep in mind, I much rather be interpreting). I can’t help but feel like I’m crossing a boundary in a sense, it’s hard for me to put into words the feeling. But long story short it leaves me feeling a little off. I can’t help but also think of what all the hearing attendees perspective of this as well. I wasn’t hired to be the Deaf persons plus one. I could go on and on but I’ll keep this short as I can. Please any feedback or perspectives you may have, I’m all ears. Curious to see if anyone else feels this way or can shed light on maybe what I’m not seeing. Thanks so much. Appreciate it!