I'm making this short and sweet. My ex put me through the worst of the worst from drugs to coercive assault but I wasn't smart enough to collect evidence. I only have evidence of him admitting to cheating on me, which is on a phone that I don't even have right now.
I'm not trying to get him charged, it's stupid to try that with no evidence besides my own recount. The only other evidence I could think of is my friend who watched me switch from anti-drugs to wanting them after getting involved with him.
His friend has also harassed me twice in the last year.
He's blocked, but clearly I left a way for him to contact me, after changing phones. He tried contacting me that way. He's acting innocent, like he wants closure, but the moment he contacted me my stomach dropped. It felt like all the work did on myself to heal reversed for his selfish endeavour for closure ages later.
This made me realise that the only thing I need and will ever need from him is absence. It's only been his friend bothering me up until now so even a text might get him to finally stay away from me.
but TLDR; he reached out after long healing. if i send him a text telling him to stay away from me, including his friends, in obviously a more legal formality fashion, and he disobeys that, ON TOP of my recount of what he's done, should this give me more power to get a restraining order approved? does anybody have any experience filing with very little hard evidence but a detailed recount? i know im asking for lots of hope here